Book: Shiver
Author: Maggie Stiefvater
Publisher: Scholastic Press
392 pages (Hardcover)
My Rating:

Rikki from The Bookkeeper and I decided to do a read-a-long together because I am not big on romance books and am trying to open myself up to different genres. She suggested Shiver because she hadn’t read it either and we have both heard good things about it. My review below will include some SPOILER type discussion so if you are interested in the book and don’t want to know anything about it, I would navigate away at this point.
Shiver has created a lot of dialogue between some of my book blogging friends and I. I found it enjoyable, but I also found that something was lacking for me. The writing had a distant quality to it, so connecting with the characters was actually quite difficult. I felt like even they felt like they were on the outside looking in on their own lives. I wonder if Maggie Stiefvater intentionally wrote the book this way or if this is just her writing style. Either way, it didn’t necessarily hamper my enjoyment of the book, but it was something that I noticed throughout the book. The chapters are divided into Grace and Sam point of view chapters
I find dialogue like this problematic between teens because as a teenager I frankly would have been too awkward to say something so bold to a boy. I also get uncomfortable reading scenes that include sex between teens (although I know in some books there is a sociological importance to confronting the issue) because frankly it makes me feel like a peeper in a inappropriate private moment between underage people. Can’t teens find something more constructive to do than fall into bed with each other? I know it’s just the reality of things, but I sometimes feel like sex between underage people is encouraged now. I was a teen in the time when it started being normalized, but we were introduced to the perils of it as well including teen pregnancy and STDs (which were both all too common at my high school). I feel like all forms of media now make teen sexuality less taboo than it probably should be. In this respect, I think Shiver is not alone in romanticizing teen sex rather than showing it for what it really usually ends up with—heartbroken young people who often make poor choices and give a part of themselves to someone.
‘That was so sexy,’ she said, voice uneven. ‘I didn’t think you could get any sexier.’
However, this being said, I do think that Shiver dealt with parental neglect in a way that Twilight did not. There was actually discussion about the absentee parents Grace had to live with whereas in Twilight it was more taken for granted that Bella came from a neglectful home. Sam did confront Grace about her parents behavior and it was clear that she was hurt by them not being a major part of her life.
Grace’s pain is tangible and real and is something that many teens deal with. I was glad for this discussion since essentially she was shacking up with Sam for a good deal of the book and her parents were none the wiser. I thought it gave a better understanding to her humanity and her desire to be loved. People might argue that Grace should not find her love and identity in a boy, but I think this is part of the human condition so I actually applauded this portion of the book because it is a situation I could see happening. However, I wonder how teens would deal with a passage like this. Are they mature enough to see that they don’t actually have to find their identity in a boy and that the fairy tale romance is not usually something that occurs?
[Sam] ‘Does it bother you? That your parents are the way they are?’…[Grace] ’Why can’t I make them love me any more than they do?’…[Sam] ‘Grace, they love you. It’s not about you. It’s their problem.’ [Grace] ‘I’ve tried so hard. I never get into trouble. I always do my homework. I cook their damn meals, when they’re home, which is never—‘…”
Overall, I did enjoy the book. I will read Linger (the second book in the series) at some point in the future, but the disconnected feeling of the writing kept me from thinking this was a really good read. I also didn’t care for the song lyrics and poetry recitation in the book. What it boils down to is that I’m truly not a romantic for the most part. I think I would think it was corny if someone sang to me or recited a poem for me. I’m going to own that unromantic side of my personality. It may work really well for others though so if you enjoy those heartfelt declarations then Sam Roth is definitely a loveable male character. I definitely recommend Shiver as discussion material for teens and adults. I found that in the end it was definitely a worthwhile read because of the dialogue it created for me and my friends.
Links of Interest
Rikki at The Bookkeeper – Shiver Update #1
Rikki at The Bookkeeper's full Shiver Review
Chachic's Review of Shiver
Iris from Iris on Books' Review of Shiver
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Rikki 49p · 750 weeks ago
Not addressing teenage sex and making it into a taboo won't help at all. Keeping something a taboo never helps prevent it.
As for being heartbroken or disappointed afterwards, this is something that applies to a lot of people, it is a risk that you take no matter how old you are.
I must agree though that the romantic angle was somewhat overdone here.
I'll post my review later today...
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irisonbooks 59p · 749 weeks ago
As for the sex. I am conflicted about this. You see.. I liked how this book approached it a lot more than Twilight did "you cannot have sex before getting married and once you have sex you will get pregnant", I think it is more realistic. When I was in high school, most people had had sex by the later years. However, I personally feel sex should not be promoted too much, make it too normal. I think that in US YA that is not the case, personally, but in US TV shows and especially in Dutch fiction sex is made so normal that there's nothing special about it and takes a way the feeling that you should think before you act or at the very least feel something for the person.. But I know these are personal issues of mine, since I have always felt that I personally would only want to have sex with someone who I consider "the one" or at least am in a very serious relationship with. At the same time, I cringe everytime I come across a "be responsible when you have sex" message in a book aimed at teens. So I don't know. All I can say is that I feel conflicted about it.
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Ellie M · 749 weeks ago
It is an interesting and delicate subject you gals are taking about, one that doesn’t have a clear path or solution because you can not blame the authors for where parents are lacking --- can you? Sometimes I feel like I do.
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chachic 47p · 749 weeks ago
You know what, I don't really pay much attention to the sex in YA books anymore. Maybe it's because I read a lot of YA so I've gotten used to how common it is and it isn't a big deal for me anymore. It doesn't affect how I feel about the story in general. In general though, I'm more into adult urban fantasy (like Kate Daniels) than YA urban fantasy (like this one) probably because there's less angst.
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Rikki 49p · 749 weeks ago
I suppose it all boils down to what we knew when we were younger and what circumstances formed our opinions on things.
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